If you are not Chinese you probably know little about China and would find the girls even more alluring since their ways seem quite distinct from European girls or girls from other part of the world.
If you are not Chinese you probably know little about China and would find the girls even more alluring since their ways seem quite distinct from European girls or girls from other part of the world. This is not to say that they are a different specie altogether but their rich cultural heritage makes them quite distinct in their way of life or behavior. Globalization has brought about a more blending of cultures between different lands but still you just might need some tips on how to date a Chinese girl successfully.
1. You should not try to date a Chinese girl. That means, don't try the traditional dating moves. A dinner, movie, an occasional goodnight kiss and the no more calls from her. This is what everyone else is doing and it comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. These is what every one else has been doing with her. Try something easier, cheaper and less conventional. Something like just meeting for coffee, no big set up or preparations. She is less prepared and expectant. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations.
2. Every guy tries to get a Chinese woman out on a date and impress her with detailed "rap" or speech moves. The truth is she has heard it all before in many variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more the Chinese girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and Chinese girls like you challenging.
3. Do not be Mr. Goody-goody. Be a bit naughty throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Do not over do it but do not show her you are over impressed with her looks. Naughty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are.
4. Chinese girls get a lot of admirers and so you have to be different to leave an impression. Most of them would want to give you little test to see how firm you are. Do not just give in to every one of her whim. Sometimes you can playfully yet firmly resist or refuse her.
5. Believe it or not a Chinese girl would rate you more if she discovers you are admired by other Chinese girls. So don't spend all your time with one. Widen out and let them know you are trying to decide and have a lot of admirers. You just would be surprised with he results.
6. Chinese are family bound, if you meet a Chinese lady you would likely notice that family bounds are more respected within them. So get to know more about her family. Be interested in her family it sure would boost the possibility of your success.
7. Honesty is also a quality that is highly respected in the China society. A man of honor does not lie and does not abandon his responsibility. If you wish to impress a Chinese girl you have to prove to her that you can be such a man of honor.